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Who started it.

May be a wrong question.

It’s easy, short sighted and shorted lived – a response.

It ends in crucification of a single.

And isn’t that the bigger issue?

This “singular” polarized view.

When did it start?  May be more insightful an exploration

For all of us.

It clearly didn’t start with someone making a decision or picking a gun

When .. then.

Did it start when someone was born, or how?

When someone was denied

When someone was shut out

When someone was shamed, or blamed?

Or did it start when someone was not listened to …

Or ridiculed

Or was told they were not enough..somehow.

Or didn’t belong.

Or was it the seeing of someone else’ helplessness

Or the unjust pain of another.

Or just feeling the heat while reading the history lessons.

The wars coming alive in in the mind.

Or the bottled anger against what was told that was Unacceptable.

Maybe it was the forced black shoes one had to wear in school.

Maybe it was those forcibly levied decisions about clothes, friends, vocation.

With good Intent. Always the damn “good intention”

Or just the way the boys threw stones at the homeless man.

Or picked at the lame dog

 Of course. Just for fun!!!

or the putting up of a brave face to hide the tears

or the ringing of the hurting words.., over and over again

What…

When

How

There was no one single moment OR a Person.

But ..

The Choice of peace can be made

Now

In this single moment.

If we  MUST Choose, there are choices..

The choice to be Kind.

The Choice to see humanity as one

The choice to forgive

The Choice to pray for People NOT nations.

The choice to not let hurts ..hurt more

The choice is to have faith.

The choice to retell the Old story in a New way

It’s time to pause to see and realise, when we see the face of a crying child,

Compassion arises..long before we assign, nationality, gender and other labels.

In THAT pause…lies our hidden humanity.

Nobody wins in a war.

It’s time we look at our inner wars..

And the choices we have..

In this very precious moment.

I have faith in the collective sigh

Of humanity

Still.

I wonder…

As I sit with all this.

What if we had placed ‘Tug of Peace’, as children Instead.

War is a Story…waiting to be re-written and healed

In all ouf us.

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5 Comments

  • Palak, February 27, 2022 @ 11:03 am Reply

    Beautifully articulated!

  • D v s sastry, February 28, 2022 @ 2:55 pm Reply

    Impressive.
    The decision between war and peace are taken by representatives of people and not by the people. Ordinary people can not think of war as they can not face the consequences of war. The rajas pravvutti in few individuals invoke war in their minds. How that happens can not be modeled, even with all explanatory variables listed by you. However some one should attempt to classify pre war years negotiations

  • Irene Medina, March 2, 2022 @ 8:03 pm Reply

    Terrible truth beautifully expressed…

  • Preeti Singh, March 4, 2022 @ 6:08 pm Reply

    Trying to visualize tug of peace 🙂
    Yes, war is a story that must be be understood and healed. Again and again. Within and without.

  • Mark, September 12, 2022 @ 5:43 pm Reply

    Thanks for your blog, nice to read. Do not stop.

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